In The Berry Pickers, Amanda Peters tells the story of a young Mi’kmaq girl, Ruthie, who is kidnapped by a white couple devastated that they are unable to produce their own child. Ruthie’s absence from her family leads to five decades of family trauma, mainly lived out through the character of Joe, Ruthie’s brother, who holds himself accountable for Ruthie’s disappearance and in turn succumbs to addiction, violence, and various forms of self-neglect and self-loathing. The novel shuttles between the perspectives of Joe and Ruthie until the two are reunited at Joe’s death in a moment that Peters paints as a — if not curative, then rightful — denouement.

I found the novel’s character expression powerful, and specifically appreciated the low-fuss way in which Peters reveals the inner workings of her two protagonists through quiet, hard-won insight expressed in monologue (and occasional, catchy aphorism). I don’t think I’ll soon forget the cinematic vista of Joe driving west, blood stains on his jeans, as he grapples with his own failings, or Ruthie hearing the voices of children while the waves break on the beach. Peters has a masterful way of conjuring deep and conflicting sets of emotions in her characters without straight exposition.

The book is also powerfully atmospheric: it is a sparse and elegiac, painterly and quiet. Whenever I picked it up, even when encountering the violent scenes, I had the impression of being in a library, where everything is hushed and echoing. I can’t pinpoint the exact technicalities that brought this to bear, but it gives the book a distinctive sound and tone.

At the same time, I found the plot distractingly heavy-handed. The siblings’ path-crossing in Boston, the aunt’s discovery of the obscure news clipping, the berry farm owner’s willingness to shell out sensitive personal information all read like roughshod contrivances. And Ruthie’s seeming lack of awareness about her appearance relative to her parents’ and the synchrony between her “dreams” and the onset of her mother’s headaches felt farfetched, too. But I think the plot’s weaknesses are forgivable within the broader commentary Peters is making about the Mi’kmaq experience, forced assimilation, and the devastating history of taking indigenous children from their families and sending them to white schools where (borrowing/adapting the words of Ruthie’s eldest sister, Mae): “they try to erase the Indian out of you.” In a sense, this is what has happened to Ruthie: she has been forcibly taken from her Mi’kmaq family, and re-introduced to herself as “a white girl with Italian ancestry,” and the book operates sufficiently at that meta level, too, by demonstrating just how grave forced family separation can be. Her abduction leads her to lose much of herself — her memories, her culture, most importantly the deep love of her family — and deeply wounds multiple generations within her birth family. It is an unimaginable crime, and I think where the plot falls short, Peters is underlining this point by showing us the extreme lengths to which people will go to keep or restore their families. This book, then, is about family ties — the delusions and lies we tell ourselves to keep them, and the beautiful ways in which they can hold us together. We even see this lived out though Ruthie’s “adoptive” (using the term ironically) family: they somehow convince themselves that their abduction is excusable because they genuinely love and care for Ruthie. And Peters cultivates some pathos from her audience on this front, too. (How hard do we come down on her Aunt June?) On the other side of the story, we have Joe, who continuously injures himself by deceiving himself into believing he has been the cause of his sister’s abduction and brother’s death — misapprehensions born of deep familial love that destroy his body and spirit.

Mainly, though, when I think of this book, I see a sprawl of loneliness, in which characters isolated from their families whether by choice or crime or violence or some combination of all three hang suspended in their own inner turmoil. Even when the characters are able to connect with one another in various ways (including at the novel’s tidy ending), the book still reads like a set of isolation journals, with the characters anxiously watchful, and their monologues verging on the solipsistic. I am thinking not only of Ruthie and Joe and their relationships with their siblings and parents, but also Ruthie and her husband, from whom she chooses to distance herself after a miscarriage. She makes herself be alone. Again and again, the characters withdraw and withhold–until the novel’s end. In this way, the storyline runs like spilt milk, the liquid running every which way but together, filling little grooves and cracks, running further and further down the table. I felt helpless watching it unfold, a sensation furthered by Peters’ decision to give us early access to the truth of the situation. We know, within the first few chapters, exactly what has happened; the characters don’t find out until the novel’s end.

My concluding review: I would recommend this book as a perfect fit for a book club, capable of sustaining substantive conversation but easy enough to read in a couple sittings.

The Berry Pickers Book Club Questions.

I used to write book club questions for our book conversations and have somehow fallen off. I have a high suspicion that this book will be heavily read in book clubs the world over, so am sharing a couple of conversation starters here in case you’re in that boat:

+Why do you think Peters chose the title “Berry Pickers” for the novel? Why not, for example, anchor a title in Ruthie’s abduction, or in the family itself? How does the title draw us out of (or into) a specific narrative?

+Why do you think Ruthie chose to leave her husband after her miscarriage? What did this decision do within the broader themes of family tie, bloodlines, isolation, etc?

+How did the narrative structure make you feel? Do you think the dueling perspectives worked?

+Why do you think Peters let us know the truth of Ruthie’s abduction so early in the novel?

+How culpable do you find Aunt June? What do you think Peters is saying about her complicitness in Ruthie’s abduction?

Post-Scripts: What to Read Next.

+Books in a similar vein: The God of the Woods (which I’ve read; full review linked) and All the Colors of the Dark (which I’ve not, but is often mentioned by well-read friends in the same breath).

+One of my favorite book club reads. I really enjoyed discussing this one with the women in my neighborhood.

+Currently reading: The Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy (a literary thriller; the cover copy summarizes the gist with: “A family on a remote island. A mysterious woman washed ashore. A rising storm on the horizon.”). I know a lot of you read and loved this book; can’t wait to compare notes.

+Next in my TBR: The Book of Alchemy by Suleika Jouaud, which I happily pre-ordered (a great way to support an author you love — the volume of pre-orders matters heavily to the publishing houses and literally is no effort at all for those of us already planning to order the book). I absolutely love Suleika and her warm, curious, earnest Substack. One of her essays led me to generate my own list of “Energy Multipliers.” She has such a giving creative spirit.

+More of what our Magpie community is reading right now here!

+Are you a bad book girl, too? (Twin with us in this hat if you are. I’ve heard several of you bought these to wear to your own book clubs!)

Shopping Break.

+Amazing new arrivals at Veronica Beard: this dress, this vest, this eyelet maxi.

+Currently sitting here wearing my favorite cropped sweatpants (<<found more on sale here, for 40% off in select colors!; run TTS) and the softest, most divine henley on earth (I own this in two colors). I ran earlier and was so cold; I feel swaddled in comfort at the moment.

+Trending among Magpies the past 48 hours: these suede sandals. I believe they’re still 50% off. All my favorite J. Crew new arrivals here.

+My friend Inslee’s new botanical prints are gorgeous! I love this one. You can still purchase two of the three prints from our collaboration earlier this year here!

+Fun sun print dress and a beautiful embroidered skirt.

+These bold upholstered ottomans are on clearance at Pottery Barn. Love! Also into this long console storage bin.

+At Zara, I’m loving this top and dress for me, and these tees for my son.

+Fun salad servers.

+I have been wearing this belt a ton lately. Love the whipstitch trim detail!

+A gorgeous coffee table book.

+For fellow mothers with children about to celebrate their First Communion — a few gift ideas! This necklace, scripture cards like these or these, or tiny cross earrings.

+I just ordered this tee and these shorts for my daughter from La Coqueta. While we’re talking kids, have you seen the Hunter x LSF collab?! SO adorable. Also love these Adidas x Liberty London sneakers!

+These sandals are seriously cool.

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Today, sharing a couple of fun and different silhouettes for sandals for the season ahead — fun to think about expanding my sandal range a bit. For years I wore slides almost exclusively in the summer, but these Ancient Greek Eleftherias and my Margaux wrap sandals (seen above) changed my tune on that front. I wore both an absolute ton last summer. They look lovely with midi and maxi dresses in particular, and have the bonus of never flying off your foot. Ha.

A couple of fun sandal silhouettes to consider:

LEFT ROW: THE MINIMALIST SUEDE SANDALS // GLEAM LEATHER SANDALS // SALON SLIDES

RIGHT ROW: LOOP BEAD EMBELLISHED SANDALS // CINDY FLAT SANDAL // THEO FOOTBED SANDAL

MILLIE CATARINA POPLIN MAXI DRESS // STAMP ICON SCARF // RATTAN TOP HANDLE BAG // THE MINIMALIST SUEDE SANDALS // I SEA MARLEY // BABY KNOT EARRINGS

RIO DRESS // SIMONE RAFFIA BAG // METALLIC SHELL EARRINGS // CINDY FLAT SANDAL // CAT EYE SUNGLASSES (SALE ALERT!)

HIGH RISE WIDE LINEN PANTS // EASY BREEZY SHORT SLEEVED LINEN TOP // NATURAL TALI BUCKET HAT // BLUE AND NATURAL ODESA STRIPED TOTE // THEO FOOTBED SANDAL // DEIA MEDIUM HOOP EARRINGS // RIO GEMSTONE BEADED BRACELET // RUSSEL OVAL SUNGLASSES

HIGH WAISTED SHORT SHORT IN LINEN // THE PHILIPS LONG SLEEVE BUTTON DOWN // TOTE BAG RAFFIA // NOUVEAU VIE CARAMEL // GLEAM LEATHER SANDALS // BEADED DROP EARRINGS (FABULOUS FIND FOR A FABULOUS PRICE!)

VIDA LOW RISE WIDE LEG LINEN PANTS // REGULAR CROPPED SHIRT // YASMINA RATTAN RING TOP BAG // FRESH WATER PIERCED EARRING // LAUREL SANDALS

P.S. Spring break state of mind.

P.P.S. The straw and woven bag edit.

P.P.P.S. Spring trend I love: white eyelet and lace.

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On Sunday, Landon and I drove down to Charlottesville to see Tyler Childers perform at John Paul Jones arena. Only Childers postponed the performance at the last minute, so we found ourselves Virginia-bound with no itinerary.

“You still want to go, right?” I asked, wondering if it would be possible to reschedule our hotel accommodations or dinner reservations at such short notice.

“Of course,” he said. “Why not?”

The day unfolded with vacation ease. We rolled into town and found seats at the bar at Guajiro for a late lunch of Cuban sandwiches and empanadas; we were able to check into our room at Keswick several hours early; there was a perfect table in a perfect spot of sun at Gabriele Rausse’s wine tasting shop, and we visited with the winemaker himself for a bit, and he told us that two of his secrets to a happy life are “singing out loud” and “eating a little bit of everything.” The undulating roads through the lush and hazy verdancy of the Virginia countryside were untrafficked and sun-dappled; we were able to reschedule our dinner reservations for later with no penalty or impingement; we sat at the pool finishing books. Green lights all the way.

Above: Driving through Virginia farmland; at Gabriele Rausse’s wine tasting; Keswick Hall — our favorite resort within two hours of DC

After I’d finished my book (The Berry Pickers — full review coming later this week!), I turned to Landon and told him: “I’m so happy right now.” I’d never have finished the book at home; and there I was, sitting by the pool with no agenda but my own desire. I saw the afternoon for what it was: an unflashily perfect moment of chasing what felt good with no hard timelines or plans in sight. We’d not seen Tyler Childers, but his absence had in turn given us a day of true rest and connection.

Sometimes magic happens when the plan falls through.

These thoughts fell into easy companionship with something I’m shedding in my 40s: the ersatz appeal of busyness. The pressure to have my children enrolled in loads of sports and afterschool activities. The blocking out of the calendar. The need to have weekend plans, period. I want the wide open white space of an empty calendar day. (When was the last time you saw that?). I want to avoid the sensation of rapid movement with little depth.

This spring, let me make more space for the unplanned. Let me live in the in-between and under-scheduled, where the wildflowers grow and the moss collects.

Post-Scripts.

+Let me also leave the door ajar, lest joy creep in.

+Who are your favorite under-the-radar musicians?

+No space between us.

Shopping Break.

+I own this exact poplin shorts set in the bold red color — a great fit; shorts are a tad long on me (I’m 5’0) and might be ideal for slightly taller Magpies, but I still rock them all the time. I just saw Quince has a really good look for less for $29.

+While we’re talking Quince, Landon is wearing these $49 linen pants in the above photos! So handsome and I can’t believe the price.

+Just started reading this book after finishing Berry Pickers!

+Rothy’s new espadrilles are CHIC. You may recall how obsessed I am with their clogs. I live in them at home! LIVE IN THEM. Like a massage!

+Such a sweet and thoughtful mother’s day gift. Something else I am going to rec for mother’s day: this Aura digital frame. Landon told me he’d been planning to buy me one, but Aura generously sent me one on their own! We have it in our kitchen and I can’t tell you how much joy it’s brought to us. I’m often packing lunches, or clearing plates, and I catch sight of a happy family moment and it makes me realize how incredibly lucky I am. My kids often stop what they’re doing as they pass through the kitchen to comment on the photo in-frame, to re-live a memory, etc. It’s truly an incredible gift.

+Sezane has some really pretty new arrivals: this white eyelet dress and this blue and white patterned blouse turned my head!

+I’m so bummed that I totally missed the launch of the Kate Spade x Target capsule! So many adorable gifts and tabletop finds (and the kids tshirts and sweats…!). Linking here in case you can find any local ones in stock close to you!

+Really pretty wrap style skirt for spring. I’d style with a polished white tee (just got my hands on one of these “shrunken fit” Sold Out tees and love it when I want a slightly more tailored/form-fitting silhouette) and sandals.

+Rhone has some really great new arrivals in pretty spring colors. I love this brand for elevated athletic wear — my favorite item they have is this course-to-court half zip. The fit is really good — slightly long, and flares out the tiniest bit at the hem so it easily skims over your leggings. Such good colors, too! SHOOP20 gets you 20% off!

+Love this crochet-effect cardigan/jacket from Alex Mill’s spring collection.

+The chicest coupes!

+I’m all about terry as we head towards pool season! I did order this coverup from La Veste (can’t wait to wear in FL), and I also have my eyes on this Suzie Kondi jumpsuit and this zip-front terry dress.

+I have an Ossa wristlet in pastel colors but might need this tomato motif one!

+Alemais makes the coolest dresses.

I’m back, after a long hiatus, with more honest reviews of heavily hyped beauty products. (You can see past posts here, here, here…even more in archives!)

Westman Atelier Vital Skincare Dewy Foundation Drops.

I’ve never received more requests for a beauty review than I did for Westman Atelier’s Dewy Foundation Drops. Many of us are obsessed with everything Westman — I own and love most of her products. So let me share a controversial take: I am mixed on the drops. First of all, they are expensive and the package is tiny — much smaller than anticipated. Her foundation stick is, I think, generous in portion and lasts a long time. The drops, by contrast, feel like a mini size, which is troubling because of the required application. I tried to apply this many different ways — directly onto skin, on a sponge, etc, but the only effective way to apply (IMO) is to place a few drops into your palm and then massage across the face. It feels like you need at least four, maybe more, drops to get this done, and that stresses me out because I feel like I’m tearing through the bottle too quickly relative to what I paid for it. I have the impression I’m going to run out in, like, two weeks! This could all be a package design flaw, and if they’d packaged it in a larger bottle with a different applicator, it wouldn’t feel this way? The bottle does have 1 oz, which is about 2/3rds of what is in a tube of SuperGoop Glowscreen (what I’d been using previously on a daily basis), and glowscreen lasts me a couple months at least. But just sharing my honest and strange stress over how little appears to come in this fancy bottle. The other critique I have is that it smells strange — like wet concrete? or some kind of plastic? — which undermines the luxury aspect of the brand I’ve come to expect. It’s not so stinky that I won’t use it, but it does hit me every morning as slightly off-putting. On the pro side: this really does make you look like you’re walking around wearing the Paris filter on Instagram. It has a considerable amount of coverage (more than I was expecting) but wears like a tinted moisturizer — it just lays beautifully on the skin, and does not (ever!) cake. The critique I’ve heard of her foundation stick is that your skin must be heavily moisturized before, or it will kind of cake / dry out. I would say the tint does not operate that way — it really has a liquid texture that glides on and absorbs more like a moisturizer. It leaves your skin radiant, even, and disguises any discolorations/blemishes. Westman has marketed this product as “a next-generation, hydrating skin tint packed with serum-strength actives,” and I can’t really comment on the skincare/serum element. My process is to apply eye cream first, then serum, then moisturizer — THEN I apply the cosmetics — so I can’t say I’ve noticed much of a difference in terms of my skincare w/r/t this new product. Personally, I would prefer that the tint be just a tint (no serum) and a little less expensive since I already have a skincare regimen I like. But, I guess not a bad thing to add an extra layer of serum?

All in, I will absolutely use this until it’s finished because I think the coverage / effect is quite good. However, I would personally recommend her foundation stick over her drops if you’re choosing just one foundation item. The foundation stick is just beyond fabulous. Best of breed, IMO. If you are looking for something more like a tinted moisturizer, I would say this has more of a full coverage effect than most moisturizers, and so you may be happier with something like Laura Mercier, or Saie. (Both really, really good — less coverage, more natural effect than W.A.’s tint.) If you are looking to eliminate a separate serum and just want one product to throw on and go about your day without need for a makeup brush, concealer, powder, etc — the Westman drops might be perfect for you, though.

Merit Great Skin Serum.

Merit reached out to gift me their new “great skin” serum and I was eager to try. This serum is, in my opinion, a great “entry-level” serum. It is affordable (under $40), clean, gentle (!), and leaves skin bright and happy. It has a very liquid consistency — almost like broth? — that does not leave any oiliness, residue, etc. It does not feel as viscous as most other serums I have used and liked and seems to absorb instantly. Your skin feels like a bright and glassy version of its former self after application — but I will say it does not deliver the same kind of deep penetration that some of my other favorite serums do, where it feels like your entire face is saturated. Merit’s formula feels less heavy-duty, like it lives at the surface a bit more. All in, the lightweightness / ease of absorption makes it a great candidate for expedited morning skincare/makeup, since you can apply it and then immediately apply makeup without having to wait for the formula to absorb. Finally, I liked that this product is ultra-gentle. It is made entirely of clean ingredients, and then Merit went back and eliminated 73 ingredients that are “clean” but potentially acne-triggering. I feel like that is such a fantastic selling point because some serums are so heavy that they can feel clogging.

Chane Inimitable Mascara.

This mascara is really good — lengthens, separates, curls, and does not flake. I would say it comes in just beneath my long-time favorite Armani mascara, and only because of personal preference — I like my lashes pretty bold and dark and Armani is just a tiny bit more dramatic. Chanel is better at lash separation and curling than Armani, though.

Tatcha Dewy Skin Moisturizer.

The standout product this month: Tatcha’s Dewy Skin Moisturizer. If you try one thing on this list, try this moisturizer. It is PERFECT for this season — deeply hydrated, plumping, firming. It is heavier duty than some of the other moisturizers I’ve used and liked in the past, but I appreciate that quality during these colder (dryer) months. I will say I feel like I need to apply it and then let it sink in / saturate for maybe 2-3 minutes before I apply makeup. That works out fine with my routine, but it did require an adjustment. It really (!) delivers good results though — my skin is so happy, moisturized, supple, dewy! LOVE this stuff.

Merit Flush Balm Cream Blush.

A really nice cream blush. It blends into skin even more easily than Westman Atelier (has a slightly glossier finish), and I appreciate its buildability. I do not find this blush lasts a super-long time — needs reapplication — but I think if you’re going for that light-touch, summerweight look, with a demi-sheer finish, it’s perfect. You do not feel or look like you’re wearing any makeup at all!

Westman Atelier Squeaky Clean Liquid Lip.

I can’t figure out if I like their Liquid Lip or not. I’m not a gloss gal, but this one does not finish with that sticky feeling most glosses do — it really does blend in more like a balm — so that part doesn’t bother me. But I find it difficult to apply fully to my lips? Like, I feel like I never get just the right coverage. Sometimes it looks splotchy and other times it is all over the place. Maybe I just a newbie at applying lip gloss? I guess the issue is that most glosses are kind of forgiving if you go outside the lip line, but this one deposits color? Help! The color is really pretty, though – very natural. I will continue to use to see if I can figure it out but, two weeks in, I’m still feeling like a bit of a rookie.

Murad Retinol Eye Serum.

Another eye product that doesn’t do much beyond hydrate, IMO. I have yet to find anything that really blows my mind in this product category. I am intrigued by a Magpie’s rave reviews of Biossance’s Squalane + Marine Algae eye cream — I might give that a try next, as I am IN LOVE with another Biossance product, their Vitamin C Rose Oil, which makes me think they know a thing or two about effective skincare. Otherwise, I’ll just be sticking with my $28 grocery store eye balm, which continues to outperform or at least perform-at-the-same-tier-as products 3 and 4x its price.

What else are you using and liking in beauty these days? Anything you want reviewed?

P.S. To my mamas in hibernation mode.

P.P.S. In case you have a case of the Mondays: “sometimes you just need to move the dirt.”

P.P.P.S. Offroading.

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I mentioned this last week, but I’ve been doing a serious spring shop for Landon. He rarely asks for anything — almost never buys himself anything — but he’s mentioned twice in the past week that he’s in “dire need” of some new spring clothes. The first thing I bought him were these handsome loafers, and then I sort of built a spring-to-summer lookbook out from around them, featuring lots of linen. The vibe is European yacht summer? Ha. Couldn’t be further from our plans.

MAGPIE HATS // MERINO POLO // SHORTS // LOAFERS // LONG-SLEEVE POLO // BUTTON DOWN

This week, I purchased him everything the collage below except the Brad Pitt sunglasses (the exact style Brad owns), which he already owned, but the top collage features a broader roundup of items on my radar.

TERRY CLOTH POLO (LOOK FOR LESS HERE — LANDON ALSO OWNS A FEW FROM THIS BRAND) // AURELIEN LOAFERS // RAILS PATTERNED SHORTS // RAILS LINEN BUTTON DOWN // RAILS BLUE SHORTS // BRAD PITT SUNGLASSES

An itemized list of favorites for our men below:

01. Polo Ralph Lauren classic chinos.

02. A crisp men’s linen shirt is to die for in the summer.

03. Rails drawstring shorts — easy and casual.

04. Another linen option in short-sleeve.

05. Rails shorts in a deep chambray color.

06. Mr. Magpie’s new favorite accessory — Magpie hats!

07. Waterproof Birkenstocks for $50! I’ve particularly taken a liking to the khaki shade.

08. Sueded yacht loafers — paired with the above chinos?! Obsessed.

09. Classic fit Lacoste polo.

10. Quince linen pants — such a timeless men’s summer look.

11. Sid Mashburn sport trousers.

12. Performance jersey polo.

13. Perfect lounge shorts.

14. Linen beach short.

15. Boxers on sale.

16. Boucle henley — a basic!

17. I love this terrycloth polo.

18. Very classy plaid jacket.

19. Merino polo for chillier days.

20. I love the pairing of light blue and brown on this gingham shirt.

Ways to Style Spring for Men

HAT // BIRKENSTOCKS // SHORTS // POLO

TROUSERS // POLO // HAT

POLO // LOAFERS // SHIRT // CHINOS

P.S. What’s new in spring clothing for women? White eyelet and lace!

P.P.S. View my spring Amazon cart.

P.P.P.S. On reframing your outlooks.

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I feel like we’ve been planning this Florida trip (to Disney) for twenty two months. We’re finally in the home stretch! I will share all our thoughts and reactions after we come back because I’m sure we will have notes on what we could have done differently after, but I will say that Lan and I opted not to stay at a Disney resort because we wanted to have a quieter experience “off-campus” once done with the parks, and are looking forward to some time spent relaxing poolside. Planning for those stretches of time (and watching White Lotus) has left me very excited. A few recent finds and old favorites I want to spotlight:

+SPF: Tula for me; SuperGoop for the whole family (Landon loves this stuff especially; in the summer we get a few of the giant pump bottles and keep them in our Bogg bag for the pool and by the back door); Pipette mineral spray for the kids. I have to be honest: I generally avoid sunscreen sprays because we have destroyed multiple things using this — carseats, stroller pads, even the front flagstone pavers of our house. It is HARD to get off. But for a trip when we’ll be sitting by the pool, totally welcome (and so easy).

+The Paloma Bag from Monday Swimwear — large size, and suitcase friendly – it packs flat!

+This Flora One Piece — have shared this a lot but it’s my favorite swimsuit!

+My favorite packable sunhat — look for less with this or this.

+The Julia Amory husband shirt — perfect throw on, and very lightweight. I kind of like that the sleeves offer a tad more sun coverage!

Mood board below…

BATHING SUITS LEFT TO RIGHT: ONE PIECE PINK STRIPE // CLOVELLY ONE PIECE // OTTILLIE ONE PIECE // THE FLORA ONE PIECE

SUNGLASSES: OUTTA LOVE // JACKIE SUNGLASSES // RUSSELL OVAL SUNGLASSES

SANDALS AND HAT: RAFFIA SALERNO SANDALS // BUCKET HAT

COVER UPS: THE JA HUSBAND SHIRT // LA BOXER CLASSICA // LA SHIRT CLASSICA

BAGS AND ACCESSORIES: THE COMPORTA TOTE // THE PALOMA BAG // SARIT SANDALS // CELINE SUNGLASSES

Pool/Beach Day Outfit Ideas.

THE FLORA ONE PIECE // SOLIEL PANT IN LINEN // GARCON CLASSIC SHIRT // OUTTA LOVE // BARCELONA CAGE JELLY

LA BOXER CLASSICA // LA SHIRT CLASSICA // ONE PIECE PINK STRIPE // THE PALOMA BAG // JACKIE SUNGLASSES // HILLIE SANDAL

CLOVELLY ONE PIECE // ST TROPEZ SARONG // THE COMPORTA TOTE // LOVE TRAIN SUNGLASSES // RAFFIA SALERNO SANDALS

TIMMI SHORT (LOOK FOR LESS HERE) // OTTILLIE ONE PIECE // PALMA STRAW FEDORA // 1998 SUNGLASSES (LOOK FOR LESS HERE) // DEMI HOOP EARRINGS // LAUREL SANDAL (LOOK FOR LESS HERE)

BANDEAU BIKINI // EMMIE LINEN PANTS // LA PILAGE // SARIT SANDALS // RUSSELL OVAL SUNGLASSES // BUCKET HAT

P.S. Ultra-chic, high end-looking spring finds under $250.

P.P.S. The straw and woven bag edit.

P.P.P.S. Linens for less.

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*Above picture taken at Passalacqua on Lake Como this past fall. I’m writing about magic in this diary installment, and there is no other way to describe this hotel. Magic.

Do you believe in magic? Not the kitschy kind, a ball disappearing into a hand, or cards showing up in strange places. I mean the unexplainable coincidences. Or maybe the word I’m looking for is fate, or maybe I’m talking about manifestation? I mean do you really believe in it? On a bone deep level? It’s always this way for me: I have to shut my eyes and make a leap; I imagine myself hopscotching over the carefully-laid pipes through which my logic, schooled by the circumspection born of 40 years on this earth, flow. Just jump right over it. And then I can get there. When I find my thoughts drifting down into the ductwork, I lose sight of the possibility of magic completely.

It’s easiest for me to accept “magic” when I’m looking at the world and noticing patterns that seem to draw me to the heart of things, or the things of the heart, I should say: I see my grandparents in the 8101 street address in my neighborhood; I see Tilly in the cardinals in my yard. This is, I know, because I have enormous faith in love: the heart will always find itself out in the world; love is always looking for us.

I find it more challenging in situations of business, and life’s strange twists and turns. But a friend of mine was talking about how she started her business, and the immense stress and worry this caused her at first, and then, no sooner had she made the decision to form the LLC, three clients came to her out of the clear, wide blue. She’d not advertised her services in any way. She’d not even mentioned it to anyone but her husband. She was known in the field, but she’d never done any consulting. By what forces had they come to her, and in such a timely fashion, one after another?

There is a realist in me who thinks: that happened by no accident. It was years and years of effort on my friend’s part — not magic. Like, you don’t just wake up and become an expert in non-profit fundraising, and have people asking you for your services. No; you’ve spent decades networking, shuttling between jobs, getting to know the space, earning trust and respect. (Most “overnight success” stories are ten years in the making.)

Still. So unusual to have that happen so soon after she’d put the thought out into the world. I am willing to see it as magic. I am thinking now of a line from Dean Young’s poem, “Belief in Magic”:

“I believe reality is approximately 65% if.”

Reality is, in other words, mainly possibility. Mainly “could bes” and “we can’t be sure buts” and “I wonder ifs…” I think I’ll plant myself there, on the 65% side of “hmm, maybe.” Let myself be surprised –enchanted — by life’s unfolding.

Shopping Break.

I bought two books this week: this gorgeous version of one of my favorite texts (couldn’t not) and this Amy Tan book, which a Magpie reader charmingly messaged me about: “I saw it in a bookstore and immediately thought of you. The lit x birding crossover brand is strong hahah.” (Thank you, V!)

I am also super excited to try this cold brew / cold espresso / nitro coffee machine en route to me now. I have wanted to make iced espresso drinks at home forever, and this new brand called Cumulus reached out and offered to send me one of their makers to try. I will report back with thoughts but I am so excited for iced latte afternoons!

LITTLE WOMEN // TORY BURCH KIRA SANDALS // GAP DRESS // WESTMAN ATELIER BLUSH/BRONZER PALETTE // AMAZON STRIPE SHORTS // ACRYLIC BOOKSTAND // THE BACKYARD BIRD CHRONICLES // THOMAS PAUL MELAMINE PLATES // LEWIS FISH PAJAMAS // CUMULUS COLD BREW/ESPRESSO MACHINE

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+THE PLUM YOU’RE GOING TO EAT NEXT SUMMER: I’ve shared this poem before, but I keep returning to its sentiment when I’m uncertain, or in wait. Landon and I have been in a steady, comfortable groove for the past few years, since moving to Bethesda, and yet I have also been working on big projects that are changing my day-to-day work, and shaping my creative process. I keep wondering where it will lead, and then I think of this poem, and I stand reassured. Trust the process. The plums are growing just for me. Related: I absolutely loved the energy of this reel I found this week (“she doesn’t know it yet, but the random guy her friends recorded her talking to at the bar last St. Patrick’s day was about to end her four years of being single” — wow!) Love is looking for us everywhere! Good things coming.

+IN PRAISE OF A NORMAL DAY: My daughter keeps a daily journal and I am disciplined about avoiding the temptation to read it; I want to honor her privacy, and keep it a sacred space for her. I have this searing memory of an afternoon that I find my childhood nanny reading my journal, and I was devastated! I had written a lot of nothing in it, but I had also documented petty complaints against her, and my siblings, and my parents, and I was sick with worry that she’d encountered one. I remember tiptoing around her for weeks, wondering whether I’d offended, and not knowing. I can’t in good conscious give my daughter that same experience. However, the other night, I was reading her “The Borrowers” as she was writing in her journal, and I accidentally saw what she’d written: “Today was a normal day. I felt good today.” I thought: That’s the heart of it, girl. To feel good on a normal day. To stretch out comfortably in the center of your life, not needing anything but its comfortable contours to feel good. Wow! From the mouth of babes. Also: in praise of a normal day.

+BESTSELLERS: So many of you picked up my favorite cropped terry sweatpants from Frank and Eileen, currently almost 50% off. I love them because they hold their shape nicely and look a bit more polished than your run of the mill sweats. I own them in white, navy, and pale blue. Several asked about sizing/fit; I take my true size in these (xs) and the fit is perfect. I am 5’0 and they are a perfect cropped length on me — hit an inch above my ankle maybe?

01. THE BEST CROPPED SWEATPANTS (RUN TTS) // 02. THE OUTSET LIP OASIS (GET THE NUDE/DUNE COLOR!!!) // 03. CURRENTBODY RED LIGHT LED MASK (USE JEN10 FOR 10% OFF) // 04. TUCKERNUCK DRESS // 05. LEE RADZIWILL BAG (!!!) — IF YOU FOLLOW ME ON INSTA/READ MY “WHAT I LOVED WEARING” SERIES, YOU KNOW I HAVE BEEN CARRYING HER EVERYWHERE // 06. BODEN STRIPED SHIRTDRESS // 07. THE COSIMA NAP DRESS (I BOUGHT THIS TOO, IN THE GREEN/WHITE STRIPE) // 08. J. CREW PATTERNED PANTS // 09. HANNI MOISTURIZING STICK // 10. COTTON SWEATER

+JUST FOR LAUGHS: This video on stopping into a tiny boutique (how familiar is this?!), how I feel when I eat a croissant (I can’t not love Timothee Chalamet, even though I have no interest in the Dylan movie; he was a very convincing Laurie in Greta Gerwig’s “Little Women,” and he had absurdly big shoes to fill after Christian Bale, and so I’ll forever love him), and some inside baseball humor for those of us in the field of letters.

+EYEING + BUYING: A few things on my radar at the moment…I am so excited about this TWP shirt I got. I think it’s the most excited I’ve been for a wardrobe addition in awhile! I just love the unusual silhouette — elevated and interesting basic — and this is exactly what I want to wear right now, with statement jeans.

I also wanted to give you a heads up that most of the Dorsey paracord necklaces sold out in under 24 hours of going live to public, but a few colors are left, and I think this khaki/green colorway is wildly chic. I have the navy and it adds such great dimension and interest to my daily stack. I love it layered beneath a button-down.

Lastly – I’ve mentioned these a bunch but I can’t stop raving about these open Bose earpods. They are one of my favorite upgrades for running. Not only do they stay in the ear (they have an over-ear design and never fall out) but are much more comfortable (a looser fit) and safe (you can hear more ambient noises). But one of the top selling points for me? It holds its charge for, like, ever. I think I’ve charged them once, or maybe twice, since I got them a few months ago.

SOLD OUT NYC DRESS (15% OFF WITH MAGPIE15) // TWP STRIPED BUTTON DOWN // ZARA TANK // DORSEY PARACORD NECKLACE // EVERLANE JEANS // LOEWE SUNGLASSES // CELINE SANDALS // LORO PIANA BAG // BOSE OPEN EARPODS

+KACEY MUSGRAVES X FINNEAS: Fellow Spacey Kacey lovers! I can’t wait to watch this entire set.

DOEN NERA TOP // JOE’S JEANS MARGO JEANS // HART NECKLACE (EXACT CHARMS HERE)

An Instagram follower said the outfit above was “giving Jennifer Grey in Dirty Dancing” and I AM LIVING for the reference. She’s not wrong.

A Perfect Everyday Dress.

The top is a t-shirt material! The bottom is loose, not-sheer poplin! I took a size down in this and find it very forgiving thanks to the drawstring waist.

LA LIGNE DRESS // ALICE WALK CASHMERE CARDIGAN // LEE RADZIWILL BAG // MANGO FLATS // LIZZIE FORTUNATO NECKLACE (SOLD OUT, SIMILAR HERE)

The Most Flattering Dress Silhouette.

In my opinion, nothing tops JA’s Betty! This is my second dress in this silhouette. The material is a really heavy cotton that falls beautifully and holds its shape very well.

JULIA AMORY DRESS // LEE RADZIWILL BAG

A Sweet Special Occasion Dress.

I had been hanging onto this embroidered Fanm Mon dress for a special occasion but actually broke it out for Sunday Mass. Sometimes the dress is the occasion? The embroidery is so gorgeous! I layered it beneath this Minnow stripe sweater to tone things down a bit.

FANM MON HULYA DRESS // LEE RADZIWILL BAG // MINNOW SWEATER // LARROUDE FLATS

Bits + Bobs from the Week.

The little outfits that filled in the blanks —

SPANX LEGGINGS AND HALF-ZIP (SECOND PICTURE IS OLD BUT GIVES A BETTER VIEW OF THE OUTFIT; MY COLOR IS SOLD OUT BUT THEY HAVE SO MANY GREAT OPTIONS NOW!)

FRANK AND EILEEN SWEAT SET // ALTUZZARA BAG // VARLEY JACKET // MAGPIE BIRDING CLUB HAT

PISTOLA UTILITY PANTS (SOOO GOOD — SORRY THE PHOTO IS NOT MORE INSPIRING BUT THESE ARE INCREDIBLY COMFORTABLE AND FLATTERING ON THE LEG; RUN A BIT BIG BUT I’D STILL ADVISE TAKING YOUR TRUE SIZE) // JULIA AMORY BUTTON-DOWN

APLN ROCK QUILTED JACKET // RHONE STANCE RIB SKORT (GO UP A SIZE) // RHONE STANCE RIB POLO // LEE RADZIWILL BAG // NIKE METCONS (BEST GYM SHOE)

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What would the audience be yelling at the screen right now?

What would the score sound like?

How would you describe the tone? (Comedic, dramatic, elegiac…?)

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Landon and I watched the 2020 French film “The Taste of Things” (“La Passion de Dodin Bouffant”) over the weekend and were taken by its quiet poetry. It is a movie that shows and does not tell, gently looking at the mysteries of different seasons of love and desire. At its heart, the movie curls up around the quote: “Happiness is continuing to desire what you already have,” which, I think, is as perfect an expression of gratitude and mindfulness and living where your feet are as any. The goal, really?

It is also a movie for food-worshippers: the first 30 minutes of the film feature virtually no dialogue, and instead track the careful preparation of an elaborate Sunday feast in a breathtaking French chateau kitchen. The film’s reverence for food and its meticulous preparation verge on the religious.

We, of course, loved it.

Afterward, I told Landon that while I have mentally dedicated my 40s to my own writing ambitions, I want our 50s to be “our French chateau” era. Not that we would move to France, or live in a chateau — but that I would like for some portion of my life to be lived with a broad, squat kitchen with an open door that lets the garden air in and the sleepy dogs out, a robust potager, a long drive separating us from the world, and, above all, proximity to true depths of nature: meadows, lakes, trees, mountains. I almost don’t care where it is, but I would like that living experience, absconded from the world. I trust the fruit-bearing of this aspiration because when I think about my childhood summers in Colorado, I feel an automatic inner quiet descend; it has always been easiest for me to find peace, and God, in the Rockies, even when solely a visitation with its memory. When I returned in person to Colorado at 30 and 40, I reclaimed again the same settling hush, the pleasant self-erasure and then reconstitution borne of seeing oneself as simultaneously insignificant and part of the universe’s great stretch. As Elizabeth Bishop put it in one of my favorite poems: “The world is a mist. And then the world is minute and vast and clear. The tide is higher or lower. [She] couldn’t tell you which.” 

The morning after we watched the movie, Landon went down to his own tiered garden beds to collect some herbs, and as I looked out at our backyard here in suburban Maryland, it occurred to me that we really aren’t that far off the mark. Maybe “French chateau era” is a little bit of a state of mind. Because we have the garden beds, and the fruiting trees, and the kiwi vines interwining around the railings, and Landon has been slowly hardening off his seedlings this past week, with our children observing the sprouts daily: “that one came up, Dada!” They together labeled the different varieties with blue painter’s tape, and Landon permitted them to letter the varietals in their own wobbly hands. Beyond this, we have neighbors close by, but they are erased when need be by the green screen of tall arbor vitae; we can sit happily unobserved in our backyard. So, maybe I can gently remove the thumb tack from the “Jen’s 50s: the decade of the French chateau” card. Maybe my own inner audience is screaming: You are missing nothing. Tu ne manques de rien.

Post-Scripts.

Image above via.

+What does happiness look like?

+On pouring from the center, not the rim.

+My Missa Cantata.

+What is the kindest thing a stranger has ever done for you?

+Goddesses of change.

Shopping Break.

+40% off J. Crew spring arrivals here. This includes my favorite white cotton cardigan — the best to throw on over a spring tank or dress; has the perfect fit and length — as well as this Kule-coded striped half-zip, a chic one-piece in the cutest print, and great spring-to-summer basic separates, like these linen tanks and button-downs. And, don’t miss their packable raffia hat while 40% off! Great look for less for my beloved Janessa Leone.

CARDIGAN // LINEN BUTTON-DOWN // RAFFIA HAT // SOLEIL PANTS // SANDALS

+Also on sale at J. Crew: these suede sandals, which I absolutely LOVE?! They have a Celine vibe.

+Love Mille’s latest collection, especially the red and white striped pieces — this top; this dress. But you know I live in my Saffron dresses. So easy-breezy for barefoot summer! This brand runs really big; go a size down. I still find myself swimming in their XXS pieces but love the effortless/voluminous vibe anyway. I think my code JEN15 still gets us 15% off!

+I periodically stock up on activity books for my kids for travel, rainy days, day excursions, etc. A few items I ordered: travel journals (the Lonely Planet one was excellent; my daughter loved it! but she’s already filled it out completely), Usborne stickers for Easter basket, drawing prompts for kids, this drawing game, paint by sticker books, and this travel brain teaser game.

+Dr. Diamond Metacine just launched a small discovery set that is a perfect way to try these heavily-hyped products without buying them all in full size. I really love their plasma and in fact was just mourning the fact that I’d gone through two bottles of it and have not had it on hand for awhile. I use this in lieu of a serum in AM/PM when I have it.

+20% off upholstery at Serena and Lily. A great time to buy a boldly patterned x-bench or ottoman coffee table. I also always take a spin through their clearance section — this gorgeous bedside table, this raffia-base lamp, and this fresh striped rug are 40% off! Meanwhile, this bobble-style lamp (perfect for a boy’s room) is 50% off!

+Ordered this cute paper garland and melamine plates for Easter. Rifle has so many sweet little desktop/paper/home gifts for teachers, mothers, etc. This notepad set is so precious, and I treated myself to this spiral-top notebook — first, the pattern! and second — fellow lefties will understand the gift of no right-side binding! Will spark such joy as my next hand drafting notepad.

+I really like notebooks with gridded or dotted pages (vs lined), though – these are so appealing to me. And these pens are the absolute BEST. The tip is so fine — like a tiny laser. I am obsessed with them.

+This Bottega bag…! And a look for less (under $40).

+Phillip Lim just relaunched its sample sale, and it includes one of my favorite everyday hangbags — the small soleil. I have it in a light brown color no longer available, but the shape and quality are fabulous, and I’ve literally never seen it on anyone else. The larger size is also very chic and I believe it fits over your shoulder (smaller one has to be held over the wrist / by the hand, which I know is a disincentive for some of you, but I really love this bag for little excursions, coffee dates, etc!)

+A perfect blue seersucker dress.

+One of my top tips for entertaining at home — have lots of nibbles in little bowls scattered throughout the area you’ll be entertaining: on side tables, coffee tables, at the bar. People love a little nibble! Bowls like these are perfect for this use case. Fill with little bites like cheez-its, Virginia peanuts, wasabi peas, sesame sticks, etc. (Lots of easy but elegant happy hour snack ideas here, btw.)

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This yellow set (top, skirt) from Significant Other sang out at me when I laid eyes on it. It actually made me nostalgic for the bridesmaid dresses at our wedding — strapless sunshine yellow numbers that offset the deep blue and purple hydrangea that spilled out of every vessel on every table. The set runs true to size, but the skirt is fairly long if you’re petite like myself; I must wear with heels. I have this mentally tagged for a trip to Bermuda to celebrate one of our best friend’s birthdays this summer! Playful, happy, unexpected! The fact that it’s a two-piece makes it feel different. I am styling here with my embroidered Pam Munson clutch, which is one of the absolute treasures of my wardrobe. Both pieces are on sale as a part of Shopbop’s tiered promotion, which ends tonight at midnight! More picks from the sale here.

A few other fun recent acquisitions:

SARDINE SUNGLASSES // HILL HOUSE COSIMA DRESS // SIGNIFICANT OTHER TOP AND SKIRT // K18 MOLECULAR HAIR TREATMENT // BOTTEGA-INSPIRED KEYRINGS // TWP BUTTON-DOWN // CADENCE MAGNETIC TRAVEL BEAUTY PODS // BIOSSANCE VITAMIN C OIL

Some notes below…

01. I haven’t bought from Hill House in a minute, but I picked up two things from their April capsule that launched earlier this week: 1) this floral, which I will admit is mildly to majorly influenced by the show Outlander, which Landon and I have been binging; I couldn’t resist the corset! 2) this striped Cosima. I already have this dress in a different print and find it so versatile and flattering! I know from past launches that they tend to sell out of their Cosimas quickly, so I had to snag. I went down to an XXS in both of these dresses; I find the Cosima too big in my regular size and I took a gamble with the floral, too.

You can see me in the Cosima in a different, past-season print below!

02. OK, not sure if this qualifies as “fun,” but I ordered a weighted vest on the rec of many Magpies! I read up on the matter, and you are supposed to aim for a weight that is 10% of your body weight, but Magpies reported that it’s *tough* to start with that much weight, and that they found it easier to work up to a heavier weight. Most Magpies started with 8-12 lb vests. I decided to order an 8 lb one and see how that felt. (ICYMI, many doctors say that the most important thing for women of my age — weighted workouts! This helps protect your bones / prevent bone density loss.)

03. I’ve been eyeing these TWP “ex” shirts since my girlfriend Inslee wore one when I visited her in Raleigh. The fit was so cool on her. I ended up snagging this interesting one in brown/white stripe — I have nothing like it in my closet and feel it will look so cool with white jeans and tortoise shades.

04. These fun Bottega-inspired key rings. (Compare with the real deal — $390 per.) I don’t know about you, but I have my house keys, and then all these other miscellaneous ones that I don’t need with me at all times — keys for my parents’, my PO box, etc. I feel like these will keep those sets isolated, and I can just grab whichever set I need. All my latest Amazon finds here, and seen below in collage form…

05. So many of you have raved about K18 so many times (one of you wrote that it had completely transformed your hair!) and I’m fully on board now. I actually follow Julia Amory’s method versus the instructions on the back of the bottle and find it works for my fine hair better than the recommended process. You are supposed to squeeze moisture out of your hair after you shampoo, work a few pumps in, and leave it (do not rinse out) but, even though it left my hair ultra-touchable and soft, I found it weighed my hair down. When I use this, I now shampoo, rinse, then apply K18 plus a layer of Lolavie restorative conditioner. Then I get out of the shower and go about my business for 30 minutes before rinsing out. Then let hair air-dry most of the way and finish with the AirWrap. It reallllly leaves my hair soft and shiny; I don’t even use any other product on it when blow-drying/styling. This is what I did in the photos above! No product except the K18! I think the difference is noticeable. I just bought a bigger bottle of this using Sephora’s promotion; I like that it’s available in a travel size so you can test without a huge commitment. Not a huge price break for me (I’m just an insider) but I’ll take it, since I was already planning to buy! I also picked up another bottle of this Biossance Vitamin C while 10% off. (All my Sephora picks here.)

06. New spring bras from Negative — this pink and this blue! This is my favorite undergarment brand; I live in these whipped bralettes. I realized over this past winter that in the cold months, I almost can’t bear to wear anything but cotton against my skin when I’m cold. I swear I wore this bralette with this pointelle tee 90% of the winter. I almost regret trying their whipped underwear because they are so $$$ but they are the only thing I will sleep in. Ultra comfortable but still pretty. I own in most of the colors at this point. They hold up well though! And don’t get me started on their whipped track pants. So, so comfortable. I advise going up one size in the pants; I find the elastic a little too snug in my true size in these.

07. I can’t explain why I’m so excited about these little magnetic travel cosmetic pods. I am going away with Landon for just the night and this is what’s getting my jazzed about packing — ha! How lame?! But they’re so cute and cleverly designed! I got with the “parcel” carrier case that came in this bundle. Cadence is currently offering 20% off sitewide — discount appears in cart. I have also been waiting for JA to release a new set of toiletry bags in a fun new design (I LOVE THESE — so well-designed, with lined interiors and the sweetest prints!), because my current set were stained with an oil that spilled on our last trip. I think I am going to get this chic brown ticking stripe set.

08. Playful new sunnies from a new-to-me brand! I’m in the mood for more color and fun now that we’re edging towards warmer weather, and these just made me smile.

P.S. What we’re reading this spring.

P.P.S. Drive gently.

P.P.P.S. A Magpie Desiderata. (Life lessons.)

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The return of my Q+A series!

Q: Bathing suits that are cute but not too sexy to be worn around my husband’s family.

A: I like this Minnow and this Marysia!

Q: A work bag for my 16″ laptop.

A: This Cuyana! I own and love her. Splurge: Metier.

Q: Crossbody bag for spring/summer.

A: This Paris64, this FRP, this Loro Piana, this Loewe, this Prada,

Q: Flowy summer dresses for growing bump.

A: Anything Mi Golondrina, Jenni Kayne, this Mille, this Julia Amory (worn unbelted), anything Juliet Dunn.

Q: A big, elevated straw tote for summer.

A: I am obsessing over this one.

Q: Fisherman sandals for summer.

A: This Freda Salvador! I’m obsessed with the raffia but there are also great solid colors. We have early access to their sale starting today — 20% off with code FREDAFRIEND. Sale opens up to wider public on 4/14! Look for less with these.

Q: Warm weather tops for work.

A: These TWP button-downs (look for less here), this linen vest, polished tanks and tees from SoldOut. Julia Amory has lots of polished and chic pieces to consider, too: this, this.

Q: Italy next month!

A: This Betty dress, this Tuckernuck, and linen separates — you know my thoughts on Frank and Eileen, but lots of more reasonably priced pieces here. (And/or raid J. Crew’s linen collection while 40% off — this top, these pants, this dress! Gap also has great picks.). I also thrive in easy everyday dresses — would pack pieces like this, this, this that you can dress up or down; you could pair any of them with dressy sneakers, leather sandals, or a heel for dinner. Have the BEST time.

Q: Outfit for 8-month old boy to wear to a wedding.

A: Depending on how formal – I’d do something like this or this. Petit prince!

Q: Black tie mid-May event in creative field.

A: This hot pink, this Johanna Ortiz, this Agua Bendita.

Q: Dress for son’s first communion dress under $250.

A: Congrats to your little guy! I like something elegant like this. This is a little over budget but you’ll get a ton of wear out of this dress and she’d be perfect too with a little kitten heel and basket bag. My code JEN-15 brings it down to $253!

Q: Anything for a Nantucket honeymoon in early June.

A: Slightly saucy white dresses in eyelet or linen, lace shorts to pair with a scoop neck tank, this simple shift (and a striped sweater to throw over shoulders), this gorgeous caftan to pair with a white swimsuit, pretty little white tops to pair with jeans, white linen sets like this.

Q: Summer play and pool shoes for myself.

A: Ancient Greek Eleftherias and these jellies from Anthro! I own and love both and find them both comfortable.

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